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如何教育孩子他才會(huì)感謝你
10 Things Your Teens Will Thank You For Eventually做10件事情你的孩子最終會(huì)感激你
The teenage years can be a test of wills. Here are 10 things that your teen will eventually thank you for.青少年時(shí)期是一個(gè)意志考驗(yàn)的階段。做10件事情你的孩子最終會(huì)感激你
1. Being a good parent, not a good friend.1. 做個(gè)好父母，而不是好朋友
Parents are teachers, role models, protectors. Parents enforce bedtimes, impose curfews, and don’t buy their kids every new tech gadget or let them use them unmonitored. Good parents certainly don’t share their own problems and burdens with their kids. Or at least they shouldn’t.父母是老師,榜樣,保護(hù)者。父母強(qiáng)制就寢時(shí)間,實(shí)施宵禁,不給孩子們買新科技玩具或讓他們?cè)跊](méi)有被監(jiān)督的情況下玩這些玩具。好父母不會(huì)與孩子分享自己的問(wèn)題和負(fù)擔(dān)，當(dāng)然也不應(yīng)該。
2. Saying “no” once in awhile.2. 偶爾說(shuō)“不”
As parents, it is our nature to try to say “yes” as much as we can. We want our kids to be happy and we say things like “They are only kids once, so it’s OK to spoil them.” That’d be wrong.Sometimes, you need to say “no” to them too. It’s an early lesson on how to cope with disappointment and gives them the ability to not be crippled by it.作為父母，我們的本性趨勢(shì)我們盡可能的說(shuō)是。我們想讓我們的孩子幸福并且會(huì)說(shuō)“他們只能當(dāng)一次小孩子，所以可以寵著他們“。這是錯(cuò)誤的。有的時(shí)候你也需要對(duì)他們說(shuō)不。怎么應(yīng)對(duì)困難和不被困難禁錮是（孩子們）早期需要學(xué)習(xí)的。
3. Not handing out trophies for showing up.3. 不為了炫耀而給予獎(jiǎng)勵(lì)
In the quest to instill high self-esteem in our kids, some of us deluded them into thinking they were the best, the greatest, the fastest, the smartest — even when they weren’t. While having high self-esteem is great, so is the ability to know that most rewards in real life tend to go to those who actually work the hardest.為了給孩子灌輸強(qiáng)大的自尊心，有些人會(huì)引導(dǎo)孩子思考他們是最好的，最棒的，最快的和最聰明的-甚至事實(shí)上并不是。即使擁有強(qiáng)大的自尊心是好事，能夠懂得真正生活的獎(jiǎng)賞是給那些最努力的人也是好事。
4. Not bringing your baggage to the table.4. 不要把煩惱攤開來(lái)說(shuō)
Sure the divorce was ugly and the dating scene is brutal. Don’t make your problems your kids’ problems.離婚誠(chéng)然不是一件光鮮的事情，約會(huì)的場(chǎng)面也顯得很殘酷。但是不要讓你的問(wèn)題成為你孩子的問(wèn)題。
5. Not judging their friends.5. 不對(duì)他們的朋友品頭論足。
The girl your son brings home may be sporting a skirt so short that there’s nothing left to the imagination. Your daughter’s new best friend is failing classes and wants your A-student to be her new homework partner. Your kids bring home new friends who you don’t like for myriad reasons. Just keep your mouth shut. 你兒子帶回家的女孩可能穿了一件很短的裙子，以至于都沒(méi)有余地去幻想。你女兒的好朋友考試總不及格，想要你得A的孩子成為他做作業(yè)的新同伴。你的孩子們帶回家一些你各種都看不上眼的新朋友。閉上你的嘴巴吧。
6. Giving them a“no questions asked” $20 bill for a ride home.6. 當(dāng)他們要求20美金乘車回家的時(shí)候，二話不說(shuō)
It shows you trust them (to not get in the car with an intoxicated driver) and that you remember what it was like being their age. Be glad they are safe.這表明你信任他們（不搭乘一個(gè)醉醺醺的司機(jī)的車），而且你仍然記得這是他們這個(gè)年紀(jì)可以做的事情。你要為他們的安然無(wú)恙而感到高興。
7. Supporting them when they feel ready to leave the nest.7. 當(dāng)他們準(zhǔn)備好要離開家的時(shí)候支持他們
Not all baby birds learn to fly at the same time.But the only way to know they are ready is to let them try.并不是所有的幼鳥都能在同一時(shí)間學(xué)會(huì)飛翔。但是唯一知道他們準(zhǔn)備好飛翔的方法就是讓他們飛。
8. Lettingthem make their own mistakes.8. 讓他們自己犯自己的錯(cuò)誤
While your mistakes were traumatic and life-altering, they wereyourmistakes. Nobody but you can really learn from them. Let your kids figure it out.縱使你犯的錯(cuò)誤是讓人傷心且改變?nèi)松较虻模且彩悄愕腻e(cuò)誤。除了你沒(méi)人能夠汲取教訓(xùn)。讓你的孩子們自己解決。
9. Teaching them about manners.9. 教他們一些關(guān)于禮儀的東西
Manners are based on consideration of others. Teach them to say “please” and “thank you.” Teach them to hold doors for strangers, to not cut off other drivers, to offer to help when they see someone who needs it. Teach them kindness.禮儀是給予對(duì)別人的尊重。教他們?nèi)フf(shuō)“謝謝”和“對(duì)不起”。教他們?nèi)槟吧藫蹰T，不要打斷其他的司機(jī)，當(dāng)別人需要幫助的時(shí)候去伸出援手。教他們要親和。
10. Teaching them how to disagree while still loving someone.10. 教會(huì)他們即使對(duì)于所愛的人也要持有不同的意見
Not every quarrel is the final quarrel. Not every disagreement means the end of a relationship. Teach them how to fight clean.并不是每一個(gè)爭(zhēng)吵都是最后的爭(zhēng)吵。不是每個(gè)分歧都意味著一段感情的結(jié)束。教他們?nèi)绾渭兇獾膶?duì)事不對(duì)人。
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